{"id":942,"date":"2023-06-08T07:26:02","date_gmt":"2023-06-08T06:26:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/?p=942"},"modified":"2023-06-09T06:05:37","modified_gmt":"2023-06-09T05:05:37","slug":"how-to-live-longer-and-better-through-friendships-and-passions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/how-to-live-longer-and-better-through-friendships-and-passions\/","title":{"rendered":"How to live longer and better through Friendships and Passions!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last month, we shared a deep dive into four inspiring conversations with dynamic mothers ages 50+. Our deep dive into what has changed in their careers, in motherhood, and in how they see themselves revealed a number of insights. The most powerful? The role community and connection plays in the success of working women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This month, we want to continue the conversation by highlighting other connections in our lives that contribute to our longevity, our health, and our well being &#8211; at home and at work. These include relationships with our friends, co-workers, business connections and with causes we are passionate about.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The month of June is named after Juno (Latin I\u016bn\u014d), which comes from the root word for \u201cyoung\u201d (Iuuen). It\u2019s been our experience that maintaining beneficial relationships keeps us connected and feeling youthful as we age and June seems the perfect time to do just that!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Nurturing Friendships for Well Being<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:16px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-944\" width=\"675\" height=\"380\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2.webp 900w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2-300x169.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2-768x432.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2-18x10.webp 18w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2-600x337.webp 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 675px) 100vw, 675px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>We derive joy from connecting with friends, but did you know this connection can also help us combat stress? In a series of <a href=\"https:\/\/academic.oup.com\/scan\/article\/8\/6\/670\/1611749\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">studies<\/a> conducted at the University of Virginia, people were faced with the threat of getting an electric shock either while solo or while holding a friend\u2019s hand. MRI scans revealed that in those clinging to a friend, the brain regions that sense danger were significantly less active.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In our book, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/\"><strong>Wake Up, Shake Up, Thrive!,<\/strong><\/a><strong> <\/strong>we talk about how relationships protect health through companionship, emotional support and practical&nbsp; assistance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we spend <strong>more<\/strong> time strengthening our bonds with friends we have<strong> less<\/strong> loneliness and isolation and <strong>more <\/strong>emotional support, personal development and a sense of belonging. In 2023, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthyagingpoll.org\/reports-more\/report\/trends-loneliness-among-older-adults-2018-2023#:~:text=In%202023%2C%20one%20in%20three,often)%20in%20the%20past%20year.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">one in three<\/a> adults aged 50\u201380 reported feeling isolated from others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neuroscience backs this up. Spending time with friends has been shown to cause more activity in the parts of the brain that make us feel good \u2013 the <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/20943931\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">reward circuits<\/a>. Maintaining long-lasting valuable social relations, including friendships, and an active social life appears to protect the brain from illnesses later in life such as dementia and Alzheimer\u2019s which affect many older adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Making new friends as we age can be invigorating but there can be value in looking backwards too. If you\u2019ve lost touch with someone, the power of the Internet and sites like Classmates.com and Facebook may help you find that \u201cold friend\u201d again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Tips for Making and Keeping Up Friendships:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:10px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Don\u2019t keep tabs in friendships; take the initiative to call and make plans<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Friendships should always breathe life into you &#8211; look for friends with a positive outlook on life<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Make time for nurturing your most important friendships, even when life gets busy<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Building Business Relationships for longevity<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:16px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/3.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-945\" width=\"675\" height=\"380\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/3.webp 900w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/3-300x169.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/3-768x432.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/3-18x10.webp 18w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/3-600x337.webp 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 675px) 100vw, 675px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Business professionals who focus only on profits and the bottom line can burn out and burn bridges. It\u2019s best to lead with value, rather than view your business relationships as purely transactional. After all, saying someone is \u201call business\u201d is not the compliment it once was. Today, with all generations, a \u201cprofit first and people second\u201d mentality turns off to customers, employees and candidates.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Remember: You didn\u2019t stop being a human when you became a professional.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:16px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>It makes sense and benefits your business&#8217;s sustainability when you take time to build relationships with your clients, employees, and other business professionals.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Networking and socializing in the business space are sometimes neglected by mid-career and senior professionals who believe their circle is adequate and no longer needs to expand. It\u2019s short-sighted to view networking as only applicable to others, especially if you\u2019re considering a new job beyond age 50 or entrepreneurship.&nbsp;<br>According to <a href=\"https:\/\/www2.deloitte.com\/us\/en\/insights\/focus\/human-capital-trends\/2018\/advantages-implications-of-aging-workforce.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Deloitte<\/a>, worldwide entrepreneurship activity for people aged 50 to 60 has doubled in the last decade, and their startups are almost twice as likely to succeed than youth startups.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:16px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Tips for building business relationships:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:10px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Create a positive experience by referring business people you know and trust to others, they will return the favor the day you need them<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Seek opportunities to share your knowledge, experiences, skills and tips through public speaking, workshops or online events<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Join organized clubs, classes, online communities or professional organizations<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Cultivating Work Friendships to Enhance Your Life&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:16px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Cultivating-work-friendships.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-950\" width=\"675\" height=\"380\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Cultivating-work-friendships.webp 900w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Cultivating-work-friendships-300x169.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Cultivating-work-friendships-768x432.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Cultivating-work-friendships-18x10.webp 18w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Cultivating-work-friendships-600x337.webp 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 675px) 100vw, 675px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The benefits of camaraderie and enjoyable interaction between co-workers enhance mood, support resilience, alleviate stress, and stimulate a sense of self-worth. Since you spend roughly two-thirds of your waking hours at work, you might as well make some friends while you\u2019re there!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Workplaces are one of the few places where we are rubbing elbows with up to five generations.<\/strong> Consider expanding&nbsp; your friendships beyond colleagues of a similar age or characteristics or you may miss out on a chance to learn from each other.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Tip for making friends on the job:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:10px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Go beyond, \u201cHow are you?\u201d and \u201cHow was your weekend?\u201d Show a genuine interest in something they did as a place to start<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Attend company-sponsored events outside of work to continue relationship-building with teammates and beyond<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Open yourself to multi-generational friendships through cross-generational mentoring or collaborative projects<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>*If you are retiring or planning to soon, consider transferring your professional or extra-professional experience through teaching, speaking, coaching, consulting or mentoring.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Sharing passions for a fulfilling life<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:16px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Discovering or rediscovering your passions \u2013 those things that light you up or cause you to lose track of time &#8211; is a lifelong adventure.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Adventure gives us more inspiration and desire&nbsp; to wake up every day &#8211; purpose. Having a sense of purpose contributes significantly to our longevity. When you have a \u201c<strong>why\u201d <\/strong>to wake up, you will wake up!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You may have passions you put down at some point, but you can pick them up again at any time. The positive&nbsp; power of modification is doable, too. A past passion for running which was put down as over time your joints began to ache, and you became more prone to injury can be modified. You can find fulfilling movement through other kinds of exercise like walking, cycling, swimming or even dancing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your passions are tied to a cause, this may be the time to volunteer or take more purposeful action that fulfills you now. Finding others with similar passions can help develop good social relationships which can improve blood pressure, physical activity, obesity, executive function, memory, cognitive decline and life expectancy. Over 148 studies found a 50% increase in survival of people with robust social relationships, regardless of age, gender, ethnicity, or how such relationships were defined.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:24px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Tips to Find Others WIth Similar Passions&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:10px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Let your mind go back in time, to your childhood, in search of what you were passionate about and ask yourself if you still have these passions<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Open up to newness by offering to help others, informally or through organizations or volunteer opportunities&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Challenge yourself to try clubs, classes, online communities, political organizations, religious gatherings, or alumni associations<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether at work or at home, human connections catapult our health, our wellness and our outlook on life. They contribute to our mental and physical well-being and encourage us to become lifelong learners. Multiple <a href=\"https:\/\/www.health.harvard.edu\/healthbeat\/strengthen-relationships-for-longer-healthier-life\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">studies<\/a> have shown that people who have satisfying relationships are happier, have fewer health problems, and live longer..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Quote.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-951\" width=\"675\" height=\"380\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Quote.webp 900w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Quote-300x169.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Quote-768x432.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Quote-18x10.webp 18w, https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Quote-600x337.webp 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 675px) 100vw, 675px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><strong>\u201cA friend is one of the nicest things you can have, and one of the best things you can be.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n<cite><strong>Douglas Pagels<\/strong><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Ageing can be ripe with fulfillment, as long as you take the steps to make it happen! To take the first step into learning how to Wake Up, Shake Up, and Thrive, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/my-book\/\"><strong>head to our website to download the first two chapters of our book<\/strong><\/a>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Did you know we have a referral and partnership program<\/strong>? We LOVE nurturing our relationships and compensating our business partners accordingly. Learn more about partnering with us<strong> <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/referrals-partners\/\"><strong>here<\/strong><\/a><strong> <\/strong>or better, reach out to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/referrals-partners\/\"><strong>chat<\/strong><\/a>!.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We examine why community relationships are important and why strengthening them after age 50+ contributes to longevity, health, and wellness.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":943,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[36],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-942","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-well-being"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/942","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=942"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/942\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/943"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=942"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=942"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wakeupshakeupthrive.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=942"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}